1.
When you choose to be clandestine,
When you choose to be beguiling,
When you choose to have a screen,
When you choose to be fake,
When you choose to be dishonest,
Do not claim you are close and
Do not expect the other to be open.
What you give, you get; What you sow, you reap.

2.
Going somewhere unknown
Not worried about what is in store.
Going to a remote part 
Not scared about the loneliness.
Going to some unexplored land
Not concerned about your first step.
Is a matter of least concern when 
You are with those who show warm love, 
care and concern for you.

3.
Your closeness to someone
Whom you claim you are close,
Depends on how much you
Value and trust their words.
Depends on how much you
Care and respect their thought.
Depends on how much you 
Believe and lean on them.
do not fake your closeness.

4.
Respecting each other's views,
Acknowledging each other's faults,
Knowing each other's taste,
Valuing each other's likes and dislikes,
Seeking each other's guidance,
Trusting each other's judgement,
Supporting each other's statement,
Shows your true love, your closeness
And your bonding; all else is fake.

5.
You cannot claim you are close
When the other party is not.
You cannot become one
When there is no reciprocation.
You cannot share your thoughts
When the opposite is an opposite.
You will have to reserve your views
When the other ridicules your words.
Being with the same vibe matters 
That is called ‘a close bonding’!

6.
Your closeness to a person
Depends on how sincere you are.
Your attachment to a person
Shows on how caring you are.
Your love to a person
Is clear when you are open.
Your bonding to a person
Is how much you miss the person
When not around; all else is fake.

7.
When love transforms to true love,
There is much care, possessiveness,
There is much warmth and bonding.
There are fights and arguments,
With days of minimal talking,
If it is true love, this will fade
And life moves on with stronger ties.
If this is transactional love, then not
Worth taking it further.