1.
Before you ask me to use my brains - Use yours;
Before you insult me with harsh words -Watch yourself;
Before you demean my work - Check yours;
Before you judge my way of life - Judge yours;
Affine are usually good at above
Remember, what goes around comes around!
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2.    
When you grow, let others grow
When you progress, show others the way,
When you learn, pass it on to others,
When you have, share it with others;
Being selfish, surreptitious,
Cunning and miserly is low life.
Remember this and change for the better.
 

3.
When you intrude into another's space,
When you are curious about another,
When you want to rule over another,
When you want to usurp another's life,
When you talk over another,
Remember, you are a nuisance, 
An intruder and a Dictator controlling another's life; 
Before you are told off, stay at bay!

4.
When you scoff someone not your blood,
When you demean someone not your blood,
When you insult someone not your blood,
When you devalue someone not your blood,
When disrespect someone not your blood,
Remember, the pay-back time is not far away! 
That would make you realise the feeling of the other.

5.
Closeness with your own cousins
Is not like closeness with affine;
While cousins share a small ounce
Of your blood, affine do not;
With cousins it is mischief, it is long talks, 
hearty laughs and warm hugs that
remind us of our childhood together; 
its plenty to share.
With affine there is a clear line, 
some reticence and tacit talk, for you
never know who is judging you!!

6.
Life is all about hope,
A hope all will be well,
A hope we will wake up to see tomorrow,
A hope our children will shine,
A hope our deeds be caring,
A hope we see and hear good,
A hope we will excel,
A hope that people are true and,
A hope that relationship is honest.